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Subota, 13 Veljača 2010 13:35

beauty-beast On je zakleti mesojed, ona preferira zdravu prehranu; on voli sport, ona kino i kazalište; on bi u planine, dok je njoj draže sunčati se na plaži; ona ustaje u cik zore, on bi spavao do podneva…i tako unedogled. Razlike su mnogobrojne, pa ipak njihov brak funkcionira već niz godina. Što je to što privlači osobe toliko suprotnih interesa, navika, karaktera?

Prof. psihologije William Ickes, sveučilište Arlington, Texas i autor knjige Empathic Accuracy ističe: "U ljubavi, kao i u životu tražimo, ponekad i nesvjesno, nekog tko će nas nadopunjavati, a ne "zrcaliti". Međusobne razlike mogu dati ljubavnom paru neophodnu dinamiku, a povremene svađe i (slatka) pomirenja draž vezi. Problemi mogu nastati kada parovi imaju potrebu mijenjati jedno drugog, umjesto prihvatiti međusobne razlike i "ukomponirat" ih u vezu."

Faktori razlike

Fizička privlačnost – čest je slučaj da visok, jak muškarac bira sitnu, nježnu ženu kako bi se osjećao dominantniji
Obrazovanje – često se supružnici razlikuju po obrazovanju, obično muškarac ima više naobrazovanje, međutim u posljednje vrijeme i to se mijenja
Financije - u našem društvu za isti posao muškarci su obično bolje plaćeni, pa tako više doprinose i kućnom buđetu

Psiholozi napominju da je način rješavanja nesuglasica, osobito oko bitnih pitanja kao što su odgoj djece, način trošenja novaca i provođenja slobodnog vremena kod takvih parova izuzetno bitan. Potrebno je mnogo strpljenja, te velika tolerancija kako bi se postigao dogovor i kompromis, a to je vještina koja se uči, te usavršava s vremenom.

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